For Good Self-Control, Try Getting Religious About It (via NYTimes)

Tuesday, December 30th, 2008 | No Comments

By JOHN TIERNEY

If I’m serious about keeping my New Year’s resolutions in 2009, should I add another one? Should the to-do list include, “Start going to church”?

This is an awkward question for a heathen to contemplate, but I felt obliged to raise it with Michael McCullough after reading his report in the upcoming issue of the Psychological Bulletin. He and a fellow psychologist at the University of Miami, Brian Willoughby, have reviewed eight decades of research and concluded that religious belief and piety promote self-control.

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Turns out

Sunday, December 21st, 2008 | No Comments

Half our bags got taken at the airport. Ugh. Hopefully we can either get them released in to Bali or get them back when we ar returning to the US.

The Big Kibosh

Sunday, December 21st, 2008 | No Comments

We’ve hit a bit of a snag and had to halt operations to file a bit more paperwork. What we’ve done so far – the systems, paperwork, organization, team structures – has been extremely effective and is definitely a reproducible model. More info to follow.

Snag

Sunday, December 14th, 2008 | One Comment

Got our first bag held hostage at customs. Argh. The rest have gotten through okay.

Wine Dinners

Friday, December 12th, 2008 | No Comments

Sooner or later I’ll do a post about the crazy wine dinners i’ve been organizing. They have been outrageous, one and all. From the Champagne dinner, to the Bordeaux dinner, to the two Barolo dinners – just to mention a few.

More to come in the New Year.

Beijing – the city of death

Friday, December 12th, 2008 | No Comments

By fxb

tiananmen

It’s been a while since I’ve traveled through Beijing – 4 or 5 years – and while the city is fundamentally the same it seems to have grown even more polluted and crowded. There are many more “foreigners” here than there were before. By “foreigners” I’m not referring to Westerners but to Chinese from other parts of china. It is like NYC being made up of mostly people from Charlotte or San Francisco. Very strange.

In addition, the smog here is unbelievable. On landing a thick fog covered the airport. It had a yellow hue and smelled of burning plastic. Those elements did not fade as I headed towards the city center, they intensified. I can feel the soot lining my nasal passages. The taste of dry soot coats my teeth.

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Dead trees line the highway leading to the city. Cars spewing smoke everywhere. The throngs of people look bleak, devoid of hope, sick.

The Wangfujin area is much more built up than it used to be, sporting a giant mall filled with empty shops. Everything smells like burning plastic.

The people however are as kind as always. A bit of a tough exterior to get through, then so nice and kind it really warms one’s heart.

As usual, it took forever to get through customs. I am going to stop complaining about NY and its various drawbacks in terms of efficiency. Beijing takes the cake. The most frustrating thing about it is that there is no apparent reason for things to take as long as they do. It just happens as if it’s an unspoken agreement between bureaucrat’s and their unwitting victims – this will take exactly as long as is humanly possible without inviting more paperwork, movement, or involvement of a superior. Ugh.

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Who says there are no Jews in China?

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A very lackluster meal at Spicy Grandma’s in Beijing

This morning I’ll head to Seoul and after a brief (2hrs 40mins) layover head out to Denpasar. I already have 3 meetings set for the first 2 days…

Ps – I only brought a fleece jacket and it’s the middle of winter here. I wonder how I’ll cope with my two day layover in Japan in January…

pps – special thanks to Jen Resnick for the photos

Too many jobs

Friday, December 12th, 2008 | No Comments

It seems these days that I have very little down time. I think I’ve spent about 4 months out of the year traveling. Most of that (3 months) has been with my GAHP endeavor. The rest with either vacation or teaching/lecturing.

When I am in the city, I’m either running from one meeting to another, lecturing or I’m at my acupuncture practice. Writing has been getting the short-shrift.

Looks like next year is going to get even busier. The lecturing is going to increase by 25%, I am planning on adding 3 additional countries to our roster for GAHP, and I’ve got to start boogying on two writing projects that are looming.

Writing – a new textbook on Qigong, a translation of a friend’s work on modern formulas in Chinese medicine

Humanitarian work – expanding our current sites (tripling), and adding Nepal, and China

Chinese Medicine – Keeping my wonderful practice going

Lecturing – increasing the number of countries/states I am currently lecturing in, San Diego, Montreal, Miami – as well as NY

Each one could be a full time job. I am putting in very close to 100 hours a week. The toll it’s taking is pretty apparent.

With all that going on when do I plan to create balance? Hmmmm. This is gonna require a bit of thought…

Bali Hai!

Wednesday, December 10th, 2008 | One Comment

On our way to Bali again – only this time in style! A group of affluent and influential locals got together and formed a “Yayasan” for us (we would call it a foundation). A wonderful and kind enterprise that will help us reach many more impoverished people.

We are tripling the number of sites we are working at, and hoping to double the number of patients seen.

I’ll be out of NY until Jan 9th.

Happy Holidays to all, and a great New Year!

Standing in Someone Else’s Shoes, Almost for Real (via NYTimes)

Tuesday, December 2nd, 2008 | No Comments

By BENEDICT CAREY

From the outside, psychotherapy can look like an exercise in self-absorption. In fact, though, therapists often work to pull people out of themselves: to see their behavior from the perspective of a loved one, for example, or to observe their own thinking habits from a neutral distance.

Marriage counselors have couples role-play, each one taking the other spouse’s part. Psychologists have rapists and other criminals describe their crime from the point of view of the victim. Like novelists or moviemakers, their purpose is to transport people, mentally, into the mind of another.

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Nap without guilt: It boosts sophisticated memory (via AP)

Wednesday, November 26th, 2008 | No Comments

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Nap without guilt: It boosts sophisticated memory

(AP) — Just in time for the holidays, some medical advice most people will like: Take a nap. Interrupting sleep seriously disrupts memory-making, compelling new research suggests. But on the flip side, taking a nap may boost a sophisticated kind of memory that helps us see the big picture and get creative.

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